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Hey there! I’m Jerry.

At the beginning of 2022, I had this feeling that I was trying to walk a different “life path” than the one my parents set up for me. I started questioning a lot of career choices, learning new habits and replacing old habits, exploring different side hustles, etc… I was journaling like mad to try and keep myself accountable and sane, and that’s when the thought of online blogging popped in my mind. Whether it’s my hobbies, skills, beliefs, or health, I started this blog for several reasons:

  1. To document my journey.
  2. To maintain personal accountability. I have to do what I write and write what I do.
  3. To share what I’ve learned in the hopes that I can better you as the reader in someway, whether it’s just making you smile or giving you some helpful advice.

I hope you enjoy your time reading about my journey. Thanks for taking some time out of your day to read up on my blog!

Some facts about me!

  1. I really enjoy playing beach volleyball! I’m always down for a game of 2’s
  2. I love working at coffee shops. Hit me up any day or weekend for a work session and I’ll most likely be there 🙂
  3. A useless talent is that I can spin most textbooks on my index finger.
  4. Hot cheetos > normal cheetos. No doubt.
  5. I come up with most of my blog, video, or journaling thoughts when I’m in the shower. No shame with shower thoughts.
  6. Undergrad and grad studies were in mechanical engineering at the University of Michigan (Go Blue!) but I am originally from Southern California. Don’t know how I went from LA to Michigan but so glad I did.
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I had a blast volunteering at an elementary school I had a blast volunteering at an elementary school this past week! Helped some third graders practice their math with an Easter egg hunt. These third graders have made me wonder if I can find my sense of childlike wonder again. That natural curiosity and openness. #easter #childlikeliving #linkinbio
Aery is the only coffee shop where I've happily fi Aery is the only coffee shop where I've happily finished an unsweetened latte in one sitting. It wasn't that I couldn't take it to go. It was just that good. The latte spoke for itself. I'll be back for the championship series coffee. #linkinbio #busancoffee #aerycoffee
I had a whole bunch of fun serving dumplings at Fo I had a whole bunch of fun serving dumplings at FoodieLand Phoenix for @littledingscafe! Worked with some awesome people and learned a lot about serving and working with others! Also had some interesting customer interactions...all of which you can read on the blog! #linkinbio
What a way to finish the last wedding of the year. What a way to finish the last wedding of the year. Congratulations to Robert and Hong! I'm honored to have been there for your special day! Your wedding was beautiful in its simplicity and deeply meaningful. The traditional Cathlotic elements made it feel intimate. Your reception was the hottest spot in Houston that night. I wish you guys so much strength, love, and patience for this next chapter of your lives! #linkinbio
Tried out Brazilian jiu-jitsu for the first time! Tried out Brazilian jiu-jitsu for the first time! Thanks for showing me the ropes Camilo :).  Not as bad as I thought. I definitely was nervous for how uncomfortable and painful it would be - that's how it is with most things you try for the first time.  Jiu-jitsu is definitely on the list of things to pick up in the near future :) #linkinbio
Congratulations Tiff and Dan! Your wedding ceremon Congratulations Tiff and Dan! Your wedding ceremony was beautiful. Your vows were a heartfelt testament to your commitment to a life filled with joy, integrity, and laughter. It was a time of celebration. It was a time of reminiscence. I cannot wait to see what this next chapter of life has in store for you guys! #linkinbio
To be honest, I have no idea how I've made it this To be honest, I have no idea how I've made it this far.  Absolutely thankful to have these friends here to celebrate getting to 30. This is just a small snapshot of who I am thankful to and for.  There's many other people not in this picture who have made me a better person. Thank you for letting me share this absolutely crazy life with you!  Thank you to those who reached out to wish me a Happy Birthday.  I'm absolutely terrified of what's to come in this next decade.  Cheers!
rock climbing has taught me a lot about how to sol rock climbing has taught me a lot about how to solve problems. It's also taught me how I have trust issues with my own legs and feet. #linkinbio

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