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If something cool happened during the week or I find an interesting story to write about, I’ll write it here. This is pretty much an “anything and everything” type blog :). For each blog post, I try to share something related to self improvement and growth mindset.

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The key is to get over the “panic mode”

My friend and I were having a deep conversation about the fear of failure out in his front yard at night. He had just finished helping me diagnose a car…
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Attention is your most valuable asset

If you had asked me five years ago, “Hey Jerry, what do you think is your most valuable asset in life?”, I would’ve said time without hesitation. If you ask…
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Being alone for a while is dangerous.

Tom Hardy once said, “Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.” After living…
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Dear friend, I struggle with self-compassion.

What you’re about to read is a conversation I played out in my head. I’m talking to my friend who sort of convinced me to go to therapy for this…
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Traveling to Busan? Here’s a 3-Day Busan Itinerary!

Here is a fun and jam-packed 3-day Busan itinerary based on what my friend and I did during our trip and what we learned along the way and afterwards. Who…
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Where did my spirit of childlike wonder go?

Do you remember the last time you were just excited about life? When everything felt interesting, even the smallest things? When you had dreams and wild aspirations, and you actually…
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Making mistakes and being persistent at FoodieLand Phoenix

I went to Phoenix this past weekend to work at my friend’s food booth for FoodieLand Phoenix. I actually went up last year to help him out! It was super…
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If I died, my casket would be very heavy

Before I start this blog post, I just want to make it clear that I am in no way depressed or suicidal. I searched “if I died” on Google just…
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How will you be remembered?

I just finished reading a eulogy written by a close friend of my father’s. He knew my dad for over 50 years. He included so many memories of my father…
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If you’re not where you want to be in life right now…

You’re not alone. I recently watched this YouTube short of Joe Rogan talking about this struggle of feeling like you’re not where you want to be in life, and it…
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I had a blast volunteering at an elementary school I had a blast volunteering at an elementary school this past week! Helped some third graders practice their math with an Easter egg hunt. These third graders have made me wonder if I can find my sense of childlike wonder again. That natural curiosity and openness. #easter #childlikeliving #linkinbio
Aery is the only coffee shop where I've happily fi Aery is the only coffee shop where I've happily finished an unsweetened latte in one sitting. It wasn't that I couldn't take it to go. It was just that good. The latte spoke for itself. I'll be back for the championship series coffee. #linkinbio #busancoffee #aerycoffee
I had a whole bunch of fun serving dumplings at Fo I had a whole bunch of fun serving dumplings at FoodieLand Phoenix for @littledingscafe! Worked with some awesome people and learned a lot about serving and working with others! Also had some interesting customer interactions...all of which you can read on the blog! #linkinbio
What a way to finish the last wedding of the year. What a way to finish the last wedding of the year. Congratulations to Robert and Hong! I'm honored to have been there for your special day! Your wedding was beautiful in its simplicity and deeply meaningful. The traditional Cathlotic elements made it feel intimate. Your reception was the hottest spot in Houston that night. I wish you guys so much strength, love, and patience for this next chapter of your lives! #linkinbio
Tried out Brazilian jiu-jitsu for the first time! Tried out Brazilian jiu-jitsu for the first time! Thanks for showing me the ropes Camilo :).  Not as bad as I thought. I definitely was nervous for how uncomfortable and painful it would be - that's how it is with most things you try for the first time.  Jiu-jitsu is definitely on the list of things to pick up in the near future :) #linkinbio
Congratulations Tiff and Dan! Your wedding ceremon Congratulations Tiff and Dan! Your wedding ceremony was beautiful. Your vows were a heartfelt testament to your commitment to a life filled with joy, integrity, and laughter. It was a time of celebration. It was a time of reminiscence. I cannot wait to see what this next chapter of life has in store for you guys! #linkinbio
To be honest, I have no idea how I've made it this To be honest, I have no idea how I've made it this far.  Absolutely thankful to have these friends here to celebrate getting to 30. This is just a small snapshot of who I am thankful to and for.  There's many other people not in this picture who have made me a better person. Thank you for letting me share this absolutely crazy life with you!  Thank you to those who reached out to wish me a Happy Birthday.  I'm absolutely terrified of what's to come in this next decade.  Cheers!
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